One Step Forward...Two Steps Back

Why is it that just when we get any kind of positive news about fertility or adoption it's followed by something negative??????????? We got the news today that we are NOT eligible to adopt from Korea. In fact, it looks like the only country we could possibly qualify for is Vietnam. I feel like we just got the doors of 30 countries slammed in our faces. It's so hard not to be frustrated, and angry, and sad. And then I feel like I'm ungrateful, because I do have so many blessings. But I want a baby and I want one now (flash to Veruca Salt from Willy Wonka).